How to Navigate Church Politics with Grace

Whenever people of varying backgrounds come together, politics naturally emerge – and the church is no exception. 

Each member of the church sees faith and the mission of the church through their own unique lens, which all too often leads to disagreements and division. Although it can be easy to point the finger, it’s important to remember that every member of the church is on a journey of their own, growing in spiritual maturity and becoming like Christ. 

5 Ways to Navigate Church Politics

Navigating church politics with grace is a skill that every leader should embrace. Here are five characteristics that you can practice to manage church politics and support others during times of conflict or transition.  

Honesty

There is not a more unifying force than honesty, and not a more dividing force than deceitfulness. Say it even when it is hard, but practice speaking the truth in love. While sharing hard truths might feel daunting, it encourages accountability and fosters open dialogue.

Intentionality

Don’t be passive aggressive. Be clear about your position and your reasons for making a decision. Follow appropriate channels. Be proactive and seek out the wisdom of others. Invite them to critique your position and advise you.

Directness

Don’t hold meetings in the parking lot. Confront conflict directly and with humility. Also, don’t circumvent the church’s governing structure. Ask for permission, not forgiveness. 

Integrity

Let your “yes” be “yes” and your “no” be “no.” Honor and respect others’ opinions. Listen and see their side of things and let it inform how you communicate to them, even if it does not change your mind.

Prayerfulness

Make sure that you’re prayerful about each step of the process and that you’re inviting others to be as well. Listen for what God may be speaking to you.

By practicing each of these skills, you can help your community more effectively work hand-in-hand toward its collective mission. Embodying these qualities will also create an environment where the church can better discern God’s will and direction.